They grasp it. Why can’t you guys accept that they don’t want to do that? They want to have their way with women without having to give af about what women want. You guys need to accept this. They’re not stupid.
One thing I cannot tolerate at this grown age is people who refuse to understand cause and effect. Your actions produced this outcome. Why are you shocked by the consequences of something you deliberately set in motion, then standing there playing victim?
someone said "if you don't let people experience the consequences of their actions towards u, you will remain a safe place for their worst behavior" and I couldn't agree more