Nur Atiqah

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[Nur Atiqah @ismeiqa]

If you’re married, you know couples don’t actually fall asleep cuddling. 😂

They say goodnight, roll over, and one person is asleep in 30 seconds—snoring. Meanwhile, the other is still scrolling their phone until their eyes go blurry.

[Nur Atiqah @ismeiqa]

The good thing about a husband who malas layan your anger, nagging, sulking is that you don’t fight.

BUT that silence isn’t always peace. Sometimes it just feels like your feelings don’t matter.

[Nur Atiqah @ismeiqa]

They start acting like they can replace their partner anytime. That’s not confidence—it’s entitlement.

[Nur Atiqah @ismeiqa]

You let someone get so comfortable with your love that they forget it’s something they’re supposed to appreciate, not something they’re entitled to.

[Nur Atiqah @ismeiqa]

Learning a new job is hard enough. Learning who genuinely wants to see you succeed is even harder.

[Nur Atiqah @ismeiqa]

Moving into a new role, terus terjun on field.

When mistakes happen, there’s criticism. When help is needed, it’s “you wanted this position, figure it out yourself.”

“this position isn’t easy, you know.”

I know. That’s why I’m putting in the work & learning every day.

[Nur Atiqah @ismeiqa]

Sometimes we think being rich is about money. But true richness is also having time.

[Nur Atiqah @ismeiqa]

When I was in sales, too busy with targets, customers, event, meeting expectations to even notice I was sick.

Now in sales operations, I earn less but have more time—for my children, hospital visits & holidays. Ironically, all the health issues seem to show up now 😅.

[Nur Atiqah @ismeiqa]

Maybe I wasn’t healthier before. I was just too busy to realize I was sick.

[Nur Atiqah @ismeiqa]

After 2 miscarriages & carrying a heavy workload every day—customer service, sales, endless responsibilities—I feel mentally exhausted. At this point, I’ve started choosing work over trying to get pregnant, not because I want to. That realization breaks my heart.

[Nur Atiqah @ismeiqa]

Be kind, but don’t let your goodness become someone else’s privilege.

[Nur Atiqah @ismeiqa]

Dikahwini tak bermaksud disayangi.

[Nur Atiqah @ismeiqa]

some boundaries are not revenge-they're recovery.

[Nur Atiqah @ismeiqa]

Some losses quietly change our hearts.
I still miss the feeling of holding a baby, but not starting over is okay too.

[Nur Atiqah @ismeiqa]

You don’t find peace, you choose it by what you ignore, what you release, and what you stop giving energy to.

[Nur Atiqah @ismeiqa]

Kemiskinan bukan sekadar lapar.

Tapi boleh bunuh harapan manusia.

[Nur Atiqah @ismeiqa]

Anak aku darjah 1 jenis pemurah level menteri kewangan 😂 Hari-hari belanja kawan — RM5, RM7, RM10 lesap masa rehat. Makanan bekal pun share sekali. ada kakak darjah 5 meniaga, duit dah kering, tiba turn dia pula minta duit kawan. sekali tak dapat 🤣 Padan muka.

[Nur Atiqah @ismeiqa]

Corporate slave. “How do you balance life and work?”

I don’t.

I’m tired all the time.

[Nur Atiqah @ismeiqa]

You don’t need to find a reason why haters hate you. Some people just carry that energy.

[Nur Atiqah @ismeiqa]

Do it with all your heart.