A terrifying number of modern women do not actually possess independent thought; they just download their relationship boundaries from the TikTok herd. You will literally watch a woman destroy a peaceful, healthy relationship with a good man because a viral video with a trending audio convinced her that him not texting back in 5 minutes is a "narcissistic red flag." The herd mentality has completely replaced critical thinking with collective sabotage.
Women only care about these things as long as you are on good terms.
When the situation changes, she will look you in the eye and tell the world that you never did anything for her and that she was the one mothering you.
A lot of modern women have absolutely zero interest in building with a man; they just want to wait at the finish line and pick the winner. You will ignore a man while he is grinding, budgeting, and building his empire. But the exact second he becomes successful, suddenly he is your "type" and you feel entitled to the luxury lifestyle he built without you. You didn't hold the ladder, so you have absolutely no right to be mad when he doesn't invite you to the roof.
Pour moi, je dis bien pour moi. c’est: La paix, la loyauté, l’intelligence émotionnelle, le respect, la capacité à construire et une présence qui allège la vie au lieu de la compliquer.
Sinon je préfère rester seul.
Everybody wants to be in a relationship for years but everybody is not ready for the the bad days, the crying, arguments, communication going wrong. Relationships aren’t fairytales & it’s not easy. If you love each other, you have to stay solid through it all and make it work.
Mi marido hace poco me dijo algo que realmente se quedó grabado.
Me dijo: "No estoy aquí para controlarte. No soy tu padre, soy tu pareja. Eres libre de tomar tus propias decisiones. Solo entiende que cada elección tiene consecuencias. Si eliges algo que dañe lo que hemos construido, eso es por tu cuenta".
Él dijo: "Siempre te diré cuando algo me duele o cruza un límite, porque así es como se ve la comunicación saludable. Pero si sigues cruzando la línea después de que te haya mostrado dónde está, entonces nunca nos estabas protegiendo realmente para empezar".
Y honestamente, así es como suena la responsabilidad en una relación.