cheating people hate one thing: when someone’s intuition turns out to be right. one thing about someone who’s cheating, they’ll spend months convincing their partner that they’re overthinking, being insecure, or imagining things, only to get caught doing the exact thing they were worried about. that’s why so many loyal people stop apologising for their intuition. sometimes it wasn’t insecurity. it was evidence arriving before the proof did
If u don’t protect your spouses name u are not a good partner. Telling all of your spouses business/secrets, only the bad parts about your relationships & then allowing people to mistreat them based off of the nasty perception YOU’VE given them (especially if u aren’t innocent
affectionate men are top tier. every time they walk by you, u get a kiss, a hug or an ass slap. just that consistent display of attraction >>>>
Having a partner who’s really locked in with you is a blessing 💯 I ain’t just talking about splitting bills or coming home to each other every night. I mean somebody who sees the vision, puts in the work with you, and stays solid while y’all build. If you got that, cherish it. Too many people out here playing games with something real. 💯
Unpopular opinion, but if a woman isn’t married when she gives birth, and isn’t in a committed and stable relationship with the father, the baby should have her last name. Why are you giving the baby his last name and he isn’t even the primary caregiver?
I will forever grieve the woman I was during postpartum. She was already struggling so much, and she never deserved the hurt, betrayal, and disrespect she went through. That’s why getting pregnant again is so traumatic for me. I was supposed to feel loved, safe, and supported during such a vulnerable time, but I never did. And I still carry that with me.