you can literally wake up one day and be like “actually, fuck everything ab my past and the self-sabotaging identity i had” and decide to live an entirely new life and be some1 who always fucking wins. it doesn’t take a feeling or breakthrough moment or epiphany. only a decision.
things I've learned this year in love:
-I can love someone and still know they're not right for me
-intellectual chemistry without emotional presence isn't enough
-I need someone who can receive my care AND care for me
-beauty without generosity will suck me dry
ohh. you actually do have to romanticize your life and hang out with your friends and fall in love and go outside and eat good food and do the little things that make you happy because if you think too long about things that you can’t control it
will kill you