It’s always an ex.
If he was really doing all these amazing things for you, why did you guys break up?
At some point, you have to ask yourself why the men you keep using as examples of how generous men are, never seem to be the men who actually end up marrying you.
Mike should be a man,stand and take care of his family, she has an understanding woman, others out here are pulling knives and acting as drama queens whenever there is a disagreement.
I used to think all you needed as a man was make tons of money and you keep smashing women but even now as someone who is financially blessed, I still find it off-putting to meet a new woman in those first conversations, she’s asking for money, shopping and trips.
The thing is, every man knows that once you’re dating, he’ll provide but, fronting all your wants and needs when we’ve barely known each other is a turn off even if I didn’t want anything longterm.