The number of South African women who have followed Mihlali’s boyfriend in the past hour?? Unfortunately, you won’t get noticed, it’s too soon. You’ll need to wait 2–3 months until his notifications die down so you can stand out
men spend too much time complaining about women’s preferences but when they share their preferences on what makes women attractive , we don’t argue with them or shame them.
nobody can EVER shame me for being materialistic or wanting a man to be a provider regardless of whether I’m educated, employed & able to make ends meet by myself.
I’m tired bro, I’m tired from it all ,from everything, from people ,from myself… I wish I could slip into a coma for six months and just rest cause I can’t keep waking up to this feeling
I’m at that point in my career where I’m overqualified for entry level positions but I’m also not qualified for higher level positions. So basically, angiqasheki 😊
yesterday was my grandmother’s funeral and apart from my family, I had no support system there… everyone else had friends, partners or colleagues for moral support but me? zero.
deeply triggering cause it reminded me of why I isolate myself so much.