@LGabela__@Am_Blujay@Bhekinkosi34 My gran taught me and my cousin at 15 and 14
We used to sell vegetables at the places where people got their grants every month end or so. She got her leg amputated about a year later due to diabetes. We took over the locomotives for the business there after. This kept us fed
@OOhnuh@bhambo_lunye3@Ndaba_Luh And is'nyama is basically an example. This is almost the same as the practice of uk'geza umunt when they've just come out of jail as well. Uk'sus ibhadi nje as you probably interacted with bad spirits.
@Joy14805816@bhambo_lunye3@Ndaba_Luh Maybe try avoiding enter back into the yard not having washed your hands. Maybe keep a water bottle in your car so you can action ngoba what you're doing 'technically' is no different from wishing death onto them again
@OOhnuh@bhambo_lunye3@Ndaba_Luh You're looking at it too literally. You're not washing your hands exactly, 'ususa is'nyama sasema thuneni' before you enter back into the yard of the deceased before they thank you for the support. (This is the food u eat)
Ekhaya, we wash them again be4 entring the yard at home