i hate dealing with a mf that used to date a dumb ass bitch. i can literally tell when a nigga last bitch was an idiot cuz they be shocked when u not going for bs lmao.
Lessons I've learned from dating men:
- most men won't add value to your life & you don't need to impress them, they need to impress you
- men benefit more than women in romantic relationships bc women do far more work (manual & emotional)
- if he's not a feminist he is not worth your time
- men will be threatened if you are more successful then them
- never date someone who doesn't cook, clean or talks shit about their mom
- the thing that bothers you now will be the reason why the relationship ends
DO NOT MAKE LIFE DECISIONS BASED ON YOUR BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND. Do not stay close to home for them, do not skip opportunities for them, do not pick a university that's close for them. They not the world! Grow yourself, expand your horizons.
I wanna marry into a funcional family... when they have cookouts, game nights, holiday dinners and bday parties...I wanna be able to go get breakfast with my mother in law & go shopping with their siblings. I don't want it to be just "US" I want a family that's oriented.
Don’t propose on my birthday, don’t propose on my graduation day, don’t propose on Valentine’s Day, don’t propose at someone else’s wedding...
Keep the proposal date a separate special day not be shared with other holidays/milestones