At this point, I donโt want to participate in this shit. I donโt want to pay $50 to check bag both ways! I donโt want to pay $7 for gas! I donโt want to pay $25 for a drink! I donโt want to pay $200 for three groceries! Iโm over it.
Iโm at the age where EVERYTHING goes on my calendar. Work meetings, nail appointments, friend hangouts, crying, happy hour, hair appointments, etc. if itโs not on my calendar itโs not happening.
In case you werenโt raised correctly, it is a man's job to set the tone in a relationship. Whether people want to admit it or not, a woman feeds off his energy.. his consistency, his intentions, his presence. She takes what he gives and reflects it. When a man leads with clarity, love, and respect, it creates a space where a woman can feel safe, soft, and secure. Vice versa, when he leads with confusion, mixed signals, and inconsistency, it forces her to operate in survival mode. She becomes guarded, unsure, and emotionally exhausted ๐ก