My very unpopular opinion is that no one who is content with themselves, in a state of good mental health, surrounded by good friendships and family relationships will maintain a situationship or roster
the worst thing you can be in the black community is gay 😭 Pedophile? You good. Murderer? You good. Serial Cheater? You good. Serial abuser? You good, matter of fact, people will actually say you're allowed to grow and change. Drug Addict?? Fasho! But gay??? Hell naw. DISOWNED.