Jay✨ (they/them)

Family disappointment since 1997✌🏻
Queer mental health and disability advocate🏳️‍🌈

[Jay✨ (they/them) @itscjayyy_]

Spending my first Christmas on my own and this is the loneliest I've felt in my life🙃

[Jay✨ (they/them) @itscjayyy_]

@Zoe_Robbie Thank you!

[Jay✨ (they/them) @itscjayyy_]

Have a spare Lucy Spraggan ticket for her gig in Glasgow on Monday (11th August) if anyone wants it? Been let down by a friend so will give it to someone for free✨

[Jay✨ (they/them) @itscjayyy_]

I start my MS treatment this week✨✨✨✨

[Jay✨ (they/them) @itscjayyy_]

To actually have answers to what the hell is going on in my body and for health professionals to believe me and listen to me has been such a relief. Of course, it wasn't exactly the answer I wanted but I'd love for people to tell me 'its all in your head' now🙃

[Jay✨ (they/them) @itscjayyy_]

After a decade of health problems, various diagnosis', I spent a week in hospital getting all the scans and blood tests under the sun, I have now been hit with the bombshell of an MS diagnosis. Still trying to come to terms with it all and get used to my 'new normal'

[Jay✨ (they/them) @itscjayyy_]

Honestly wonder sometimes if I will ever experience true happiness and content with my life. Didn't expect life being rough for 28 years solid🙃

[Jay✨ (they/them) @itscjayyy_]

Just when I thought things were getting better, everything goes to shit again🙃 don't even see the point in trying anymore🥲

[Jay✨ (they/them) @itscjayyy_]

Me about every man I've ever been with as a fully grown sapphic😅

[Jewels Sparkles @jewelssparkles_]

do you ever look at a guy you used to talk too and literally get nauseous at the thought of being attracted to that??? like girl I had to be depressed bcs WHATTTTTTTT😭😭😭😭😭

[Jay✨ (they/them) @itscjayyy_]

It's MAYHEM dayyyy✨✨✨

[Jay✨ (they/them) @itscjayyy_]

The amount of homophobia and transphobia I have witnessed recently is absolutely terrifying. Why, in 2025, are we STILL having to put up with this shit constantly? My brain and heart just can't fathom the amount of hatred that still exists💔

[Jay✨ (they/them) @itscjayyy_]

This post and comment section is absolutely vile. Attacking someone so fierce in their accomplishments in our community and beyond like @MissPeachesDQ is beyond me. But hey, we don't need pride anymore do we?🙃🙃🙃

[dave 💚🤍💜 @sazzasiddle]

Drag queen storytime for toddlers in Fintry Community Library Dundee today. Poorly advertised but well attended by 2 local nursery groups. Normalising adult sexuality is not a harmless act. Dundee city council should be ashamed.

[Jay✨ (they/them) @itscjayyy_]

Someone gendered me correctly without even asking my pronouns the other day and I've been buzzing since🥹

[Jay✨ (they/them) @itscjayyy_]

The older I get, the more I grieve not having a childhood. Growing up so young, caring for one parent and constantly having to prove my worth to the other one has left me with so many scars that i can't even begin to try and heal from💔

[Jay✨ (they/them) @itscjayyy_]

So proud of these🥹

[Jay✨ (they/them) @itscjayyy_]

Finally bit the bullet and started selling my art last month and I have already sold over 100 items🥹✨ determined to make this year about growth, personally and professionally✨

[Jay✨ (they/them) @itscjayyy_]

The gods have spoken🙌🏻😅 @ShadyLawrence @thebeeswaxx

[Jay✨ (they/them) @itscjayyy_]

Started drag 2 years ago yesterday and boy was I naive to what would happen😅 I miss it so much but just know it's not meant to be😢😢

[Jay✨ (they/them) @itscjayyy_]

Can everyone do me a massive favor? Could everyone share my Etsy page and follow me on insta? Really wanna get my first sale soon🥹✨https://t.co/9LxjvRGmX0 insta @/jaydeewcrafts

[Jay✨ (they/them) @itscjayyy_]

2025 has done a 180 on me but actually for the good? Is this a trick?😅