dear black gay man, you’re allowed to want a husband, a quiet home and a love you don’t have to keep recovering from.
there is nothing unrealistic about wanting to be loved well.
no shade, it's important to have at least one friend who isn’t friends with any of your other friends. someone who exists in a completely different part of your life..
Take care of what God already gave you. The home, the car, your body, your peace, the little things. Because if you can’t appreciate what you have now, how can God trust you with more? Your next blessing starts with how you handle your current one.
I wanna start going OUTSIDE more, but in a Sex and the City kind of way, cute outfits, dinner reservations, cocktails, classy lounges , i don’t wanna be in nobody’s club with captions flying in the air.