It took me 2 attempts, 4 years of being undocumented after 9/11, and $30k (now closer to $40k, with inflation) to get my US citizenship. And that was with the privilege of access to attorneys and non-marital sponsorship. Please shut the entire fuck up about how “easy” it is.
people using antiblackness in the latino community as justification to not care about them is rich cause like, theres antiblackness in every community. its a result of colonialism. theres antiblackness in the BLACK community like what are you on
Not just men. Humans hold contradictions. A man can be an abusive father& still be seen as a hero in his community. Your aunty could be the best to you & the worst to her own kids. We are all layered. The sooner we accept that, the less shocked we’ll be.
I had a nice coworker who was never disrespectful to me. However, I later discovered he was incredibly crazy. He stalked his ex-wife, harassed her, beat her, and eventually killed her. I learned this from the news. Men can be very different people. You look and sound dumb bitch!