If you have a wife.. or fiancé or a girlfriend or you promised a woman you will marry her.. or you are still emotionally/romantically attached to an ex.. pls pls plssss stay away from me.. just stay away.
My hot take...
You should never call your team your family.
You can care about your people, protect them, pay them well, and still decide to fire them if they’re not hitting KPIs.
You don't owe anyone a permanent job just because you like them.