It’s not the sex I care about, I can get that anytime. it’s the skin to skin intimacy in bed laughing at dumb TikTok’s, it’s the random conversations late at night about aliens, mental health, etc, . it’s the shoving food in our mouths together with no care, or long drives with the window down, blasting our favorite songs. It’s knowing your spouse routine and helping them stick to it when they’re having a bad day. That’s what really matter.
before you go to bed tonight i just want to remind you that you’re going to be okay and you’re going to figure it out. your heart is going to heal. your soul is going to find its home, it’s purpose. you’re going to experience beautiful things. you’re going to love deeply, and find peace within yourself. your whole life is still ahead of you, you have time. trust the process
“Do you want kids” actually I want to be so deeply and safely inlove with a genuine, handsome, considerate, emotionally intelligent, healed provider of a man that the only feasible next option is to make him a father.
Ngl in order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. you cannot grow if you keep pretending you're innocent in the story you created
Men don't understand... being a "provider" isn't all about money. It's about providing the EMOTIONAL SECURITY that allows a woman to rest in her FEMININE ENERGY. Money is the icing, not the cake
I love a man that handles things... like those are the men you take care of. Idc what social media says.. if you have a man that shows up for you and handles business for you.. you take care of him.
Your man shouldn’t be talking to his ex, any woman who likes him, any woman who liked him, or any woman he used to like. That’s called having boundaries.
liking other girls pictures while you have a whole girlfriend is not cool & it has nothing to do with her being insecure or anything.. no one wants to hear "oh yeah her man likes my story all the time" that's so embarrassing & you shouldn't put your girl in a situation like that.