Master detachment and stop thinking a whole human and what they do with their autonomy is a reflection of you & your ideals.
The likely problem is the men are codependent whether itβs on women or booze, they canβt see themselves without whatever they pick as their poison.
I used to think " Communication" was everything ,until i realized "Understanding " is .
You can talk all you want but if the other person doesn't truly hear you,it's just noise .
Let us normalize telling people, β I do not hold grudges, but I also do not ignore patterns. If a situation keeps repeating itself, I have to protect myself accordingly.β
I really hate how you guys describe romance as something you just sit down and experience happening to you and not something you're actively participating in.
One thing I cannot tolerate at this grown age is people who refuse to understand cause and effect. Your actions produced this outcome. Why are you shocked by the consequences of something you deliberately set in motion, then standing there playing victim?
You canβt control any woman ,especially a girlfriend. A relationship is just that. At some point, the best thing is to let her be and do as she pleases. My focus is on me.Building my brand, making money, advancing my career. I can lose her, but I canβt lose myself
You canβt control any woman ,especially a girlfriend. A relationship is just that. At some point, the best thing is to let her be and do as she pleases. My focus is on me.Building my brand, making money, advancing my career. I can lose her, but I canβt lose myself