Investment in a long term committed relationship has so many emotional advantages, but it's difficult work that not everyone is ready for.
Here's why it's worth it:
Many people exist in black and white thinking where only one thing can be true. This means that everything else must be untrue.
This pattern of thinking creates high level of defensiveness and emotionally reactivity.
I’m SO TIRED of watching absolute trolls like Cole & Baptiste gaslight gorgeous women of color like Nancy and Zanab into thinking NOT ONLY that they are less than PERFECT but also that this is HEALTHY DISCOURSE in a relationship. It’s not. End of story. #loveisblind#LoveIsBlind3