Denzel Washington was right, always be thankful for the bad things in life. They open your eyes to see the good things you weren't paying attention to before.
A persons actions can make it clear that they have no respect for you, regardless of what they say. Their actions clearly indicate that they don't value you. When you notice this, take it for what it is. Remember, actions always speak louder than words.
What hurt me the most was seeing this person was capable of meeting the expectations I had, they just chose not to do it for me. They met those same expectations for other people though.
I went without hair, waxing, nails, dentist, doctor, coffee, hanging out, taking a vacation or buying an outfit all 2025 and you know how much money I saved? NONE.
I’m very heavy on reciprocation. you reach out, I reach out. you’re distant, I’m distant. you check on me, I check on you. you’re inconsistent with me, so am i. you spoil me, i spoil you. I will not overplay my part. I deal with people exactly how they deal with me.
People underestimate how important sexual compatibility is until they’re in a relationship where one person is constantly begging and the other is constantly refusing.
Sometimes the only closure you need is knowing you had pure intentions and a genuine heart. Let them misunderstand you… Your value doesn’t decrease just because they couldn’t see it. Stop seeking explanations from people who were comfortable giving you confusion. Their silence, their distance, their disrespect… That was your answer. A person treating you like you don’t matter is the closure. Read that again.