Unhealed trauma can have you excusing, ignoring or downplaying disrespect and mistreatment because you've 'survived worse'. Just because you can take it, doesn't mean you have to tolerate it. You deserve to be treated with love, kindness, and respect – always.
Its ok if you have been lazy bc it is very hot outside. Hot makes sleepy. And you’re just a person. So you’re gonna be sleepy. It’s not bc you’re bad…. You’re good. And pretty
Trevor Noah and his mom put it very aptly. Traditional men blatantly refuse to partner up with traditional women because they want a woman to “tame and control”. It’s a sickness
do u really, truly, genuinely, deep in ur heart think that the same person who had u up crying at night, scrambling for an explanation as to how they could treat u so horribly and as if ur undeserving of BASIC human decency is like...ur destiny? that’s ur king? ur future? fuck no