it’s crazy how people heard the news about liam and moved on with their lives almost immediately, meanwhile i’m stuck in this weird haze where i forget about it for a few minutes and then i remember and it feels like a knife to the chest again
I knew I was healing when I stopped making excuses for people who I let continue to hurt me. I realized I loved them but they didn’t value me. When I could separate my feelings and move on with grace. When I stopped being codependent to my craving for being cherished.
a brutal reality is the way people move on after mistreating you. they’re not sitting up in a room feeling bad thinking about you. most of the time they move on and live perfectly fine after doing you dirty. so release yourself from the shackles of waiting for someone to regret how they mistreated you cause it won’t ever happen.