You ever sit and think about itโฆand realize the only reason it lasted as long as it did is because you kept accepting things you shouldnโt have? You kept being patient. Kept understanding. Kept giving chances. Instead of choosing yourself sooner.
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out, feed you, do nice things for you, and compliment you.
You should never have to teach someone to do that.