This is so true. The courts don't see everything that lead up to that, so often times, the victim looks like the primary aggressor. https://t.co/XQ18Aa3hll
Reactive abuse' - which I prefer to call 'reactive defense' - is when a victim who has been suffering prolonged abuse fights back. It is done in self-defence or as a reaction to provocation, but abusers use the situation to further their abusive agenda.
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It starts with intensity—grand gestures, constant affection, promises of forever. Then slowly, something shifts. The warmth cools, the rules tighten, and control takes the stage.
#CoerciveControl
Why do people stay in abusive relationships? Did you know that on average, it takes a victim 7 times to leave their abuser? It's complex because you still see a glimmer of the person you once loved. And financial reasons can make it almost impossible. https://t.co/XQ18Aa2JvN
@RBmediaAuthors @amybchesler So excited to read this! I've been following your story since your appearance on Something was Wrong. We're actually using the information you've shared to help her navigate her own court issues. You can see her story here: https://t.co/XQ18Aa3hll
@CrimeJunkiePod my sister has used your platform to make her own exit strategy and fill out her own "If I go missing" docs as she's escaping her abuser. If you could share her gofundme, it would really help her get back on her feet! https://t.co/XQ18Aa2JvN
Ima need my kids to quit coming for me. Sat with my speech kids today, and one turns to me and deadass goes, “oh hey. Hi. What school are you from?” 💀💀💀