Pregnancy can kill her.
C-sections can scar her forever.
Postpartum can destroy her mentally. But sure, keep calling it “just nine months.” Your lack of empathy is terrifying.
You think you found a calm, chill guy…
until you realize he’s not calm at all.
He’s just a dismissive avoidant
who doesn’t know how to communicate like an adult.
You ban abortion to “save babies” but gut school lunches, healthcare, and foster care funding. You don’t love children. You love punishing women. The rest is theater.
men are becoming too content with being useless. you can't fix shit, can't build shit, don't pay for shit, can't plan any dates.
what are you really here for??
I need the girls to get DISGUSTED by a man never buying flowers, planning dates, building a bond, investing in & pouring love + effort into a good hearted woman that deserves it. GET DISGUSTED.
It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out , feed you and do nice things for you. You should never have to teach someone to do that.
I honestly hate that we've normalized the idea that all opinions are valid. I think we should get back to telling people that they are ill informed & ignorant
I really wanna be a WIFE BUT i wanna be a genuinely happy wife. A submissive wife. A cooking wife. A loving wife. A glowy wife. A secure wife. A Caring & obsessed wife, to a Honorable, provider, hardworking, LOYAL, loving, romantic, emotionally intelligent, God fearing husband.
“The most disrespected person in America is the Black woman. The most unprotected person in America is the Black woman. The most neglected person in America is the Black woman.”
—Malcolm X, 1962
i'm dating to marry. I love my alone time and find peace in it. I will commit once I meet someone who can add to that peace, not take it from me. It's a blessing from God to find someone truly worth it all.