Most insults aimed at women are just consequences of men’s actions. “Single mother” — why? Daddy got tired of playing family? “Slut” — who uses those services? Men. “Spinster” — who promised marriage for years, then chose someone else? 🤷♀️
You didn’t fall in love with him. You fell in love with the idea of him. His potential, not his actual behavior. That’s why letting go hurts - you’re not just losing him, but the story you created in your head.Ask ys: If I only looked at how he treated me, would I still want him?
A man who truly wants you won’t keep you guessing about his intentions. You shouldn’t need to decode texts, analyze his behavior or wonder where you stand. The right person brings clarity, not constant anxiety. #Dating
“Single mother” is used as an insult. But who often walks away from fatherhood? Who avoids child support? Meanwhile, mothers give their time, sleep, careers, bodies, money & emotional energy every single day. So why is “single mom” an insult?
If patriarchy was the system for thousands of years, maybe it’s time for a change. Imagine a world led mainly by women: less violence, fair consequences for abusers, rapists & criminals. Women bring life into this world — so why not try matriarchy?
Alcohol shouldn’t be this normalized. “One beer after work.” “A drink to feel better.” “No alcohol, no party.” Maybe being sober is actually fucking great? “I don’t drink” should be enough. You’re not boring, weird or uptight. You can have fun without alcohol.
Every human came from a woman’s body. A body that may have stretch marks, scars, pain, healing, and changes after pregnancy. And that is NORMAL. That is BEAUTIFUL. But when her OWN partner tells her she looks worse than before? That’s nothing but DISRESPECT.
Ladies, choose a man with a good heart & a full wallet. Emotionally intelligent, mature, worthy of you. But HE has standards too. He wants a woman who’s smart, feminine, caring, confident, loyal, interesting & has her own life. High standards go both ways.