Sometimes as an adult you have to decide “this is the last time these people are gonna make me feel this way” & stand on it. Rather that be family, a relationship or a friendship.
My final act of love is to leave you alone.
This tweet spoke volumes to me, it goes unsaid for everything. Be it friendship, family, friends, relationships. At most we can only give so much to a certain extent hoping not to lose ourselves within the process 🤍 .
y’all were not lying about the 25 year old experience. i’m rethinking every single person in my life right now. is this how it feels to have a fully formed frontal lobe??
i don’t wanna feel that feeling of finding out sneaky stuff & having my heart drop to my stomach ever again.. it’s just not something you get used to, it’s makes you sick every single time. finding out some stuff ab someone u thought so highly of is such a bad feeling.. like wow.
After a certain age, being a bad partner is just embarrassing. Sooo you didn’t do any work on yourself? No introspection, no healing, no growth… just basking in your toxicity huh?
pls don't ever think i'll never leave 😭 when i love, i love hard and i'll stick it out as long as i can, but pls don't ever treat me like someone who will never leave bc baby i'll walk away and never look back. don't take the people who love you for granted.
Healing taught me that honesty pays. Speaking about your feelings won't lose you anything worth having. Setting boundaries won't scare off people who are meant to be in your life & being your true self won't cost you genuine relationships.
Healing taught me that honesty pays. Speaking about your feelings won't lose you anything worth having. Setting boundaries won't scare off people who are meant to be in your life & being your true self won't cost you genuine relationships.
Realizing I overextended myself out of fear of losing people, that I needed to get rid of anyway. Giving people more of what they already don’t appreciate won’t cause them to appreciate me.
I return kindness and effort tenfold. Anyone who helps me, considers me, or makes my life easier, in the biggest or smallest of ways, I give my absolute best to. It’s my pleasure.