they stopped blaming their parents. their ex. their childhood. not because none of it hurt, but because they figured out they're the only one who can fix it now. the day you own your part is the day you get your power back.
It's so strict over here you better off sticking to what you used to and getting over on who you been getting over on cause ion play wit nobodyyyyy real no tolerance zone.
One of the things I’ve stopped tolerating when it comes to communication is dealing w/ ppl who cross the line simply bc they’re upset. Your inability to regulate your emotions does not give you permission to disrespect others or say purposefully hurtful things to prove a point. You have a character problem.
i fear i’m unjudgeable😭 i’m painfully self aware & trust i’ve already argued both sides, accepted the criticism, defended myself, reflected on it 47 times & i forgave myself before you even opened your mouth🤣😭
This girl really use to be on love & hiphop, telling niggas she was gone be famous and they did not believe her. Life is so crazy like that. That’s why your vision gotta make sense to you and you only
People be so mad when you have duality
Like yes I am and can be both
I’m hella mean and hella sweet
I’m hella grown and hella childlike
I’m hella smart and hella silly
I’m hella strict and hella calm
I’m hella prude and hella naughty
I don’t want my daughter to be like me. I want her to speak up sooner. Walk away faster. Trust herself deeper. Apologize less. Take up more space. Ask bigger questions. Dream louder. And if that means she becomes everything I wasnt… GOOD!
Not all hurt people hurt people. Some spend their lives making sure no one else feels what they did. They break cycles, build safe spaces, and turn pain into purpose. Hurt people don't just hurt people, they heal people too.