I'm very adamant about not having people around that repeatedly disrupt my nervous system through their lack of care, empathy and consideration. Get from by me.
ppl think consistency = discipline, and that having the will to show up in whatever way fits their narrative will guarantee growth, quite the contrary. You can show up doing the same shit over and over, it doesnโt mean ur progressing.
A real apology is remorse followed by silence, space & changed behavior. A real apology is less speaking and more personal work on yourself. A real apology is looking within and addressing what caused you to hurt & disappoint someone you love.
One thing people need to understand about extremely kind, nice, and loving people, is that their other side is just as extreme. It's their moral compass that makes them gentle. Don't mistake their self-control for weakness.
Now all the pain Iโve felt, youโll feel. All the years that have passed where Iโve questioned & doubted, youโll face the same amount of judgement & thatโs just how the fcking cookie crumbles. #goheal
& then ur ALWAYS the villain after, but im content with that. ๐๐พI survived the worst of the worst u had to throw at me & still came out unscathed. Better even. ๐๐
I mean yeahโฆ bc ppl really believe how you move is contingent on them and whatever their motives & intentions are. Very narcissistic-like. I move when I want & how I want. Everything is a choice & most of the time ppl donโt get that until ur gone๐ค๐พ๐ซถ๐พ๐๐พ
One of my favorite versions of me is the one how I get when I donโt like something/someone anymore & decide itโs no longer my business. The exit is very clean