The sole aim in life is to succeed, please stay away from any negativity that is against it. My sole aim in life is to prosper, I have never been surprised by any features of prosperity.
This line from Atomic Habits isn't ready to leave my head:
"It doesn't make sense to continue wanting something if you're not willing to do what it takes to get it. If you don't want to live the lifestyle, then release yourself from the desire. To crave the result but not the process is to guarantee disappointment."