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just one big trauma dump. JMO💕

[🕷 @itsosillyyy]

I said YES! 💍💕 I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with you baby! I love you! 😘

[🕷 @itsosillyyy]

I had a manic episode in November and signed up for 5 classes this semester. Non-manic me is hanging on by a fucking tread.

[𝓑ᥫ᭡ @quesadaaa_]

"If having sex with a girl who is black out drunk considered rape, then almost every man is a rapist."

YOU. ARE. SO. FUCKING. CLOSE. TO. GETTING. THE. POINT. YOU. PUMPKIN. SPICE. SCENTED. TRASH. BAG.

[Rathbone @_rathbone]

Israel slaughtered 380,000 infants under the age of 5 in the past two years...

[🕷 @itsosillyyy]

Truly love it here 🥰

[Jess @Jess_oreo]

I love this life 🫶🏽

[small waist, pretty face 🫦 @oddettem]

Dear ladies never forget that: The same world that shames me for being a single mother also shames you for not being a mother and shames another woman for having too many children..lt shames one woman for having a child at the age of 19 because she's too young but also shames another for having at 36 because she's too old..lt shames a woman who marries young as well as the one who marries old..It shames women who don't have beautiful bodies and shames those who go under the knife to get the bodies. This world shames all women, not a single one of us is spared, not a single one. So love and make yourselves happy.

[🕷 @itsosillyyy]

My mom started working on healing herself and her connection to our maternal ancestral line. I'm so proud of her for trying. But she's in for a fucking rideeee lol that shit is gonna body slam her 😂

[positivity moon @arrtnem]

On paper it is gorgeous. Two toothbrushes in one cup. Tiny socks on the radiator. Someone whose face you know in the dark reaching for you at 3:12 and not leaving. A small person with your eyes and their laugh eating cereal too slowly before school. It sounds like the closest thing to safety we have ever invented.

But a lot of people did not grow up watching love look like that. They grew up watching marriage be a war that never declared itself out loud. 19:40 on a Tuesday, plates not quite slammed, voices just quiet enough for the neighbors not to hear. A father sleeping on the couch for three years. A mother doing the emotional admin for five people and getting a wilted bouquet once a year as a receipt. The child learns quickly that forever can be a threat as easily as it is a promise.

You say mini mes. A lot of people hear smaller witnesses. Witnesses to debt. To screaming in the car park. To one parent disappearing for six months and calling it adjusting. Some bodies carry the memory of being the kid who held the camera and took the Christmas photo where nobody spoke to each other for two days after. They do not crave that house. They crave never putting anyone through it.

There is another layer no one likes talking about because it sounds too practical for a sacred topic. Mortgage rates that bite. Groceries that feel like a test. Friends burning out in two jobs and still wondering if they can afford a dentist, не те що дитину. Bodies that already wake tired. The idea of bringing in a small, breakable person is not just cute to them. It is a spreadsheet with red numbers and a nervous system that shakes.

And then there are the ones who were never told they were allowed to want something for themselves first. To them, choosing no partner and no kids for now is not selfishness. It is the first act of self parenting. It is finally learning to feed the part of them that was always the one doing the caretaking. They are not missing the desire. Sometimes they are surgically removing the compulsion put in them by a culture that treated women as wombs and men as wallets.

Some people hear spouse and feel warmth. Others hear spouse and feel a hand closing over their life. Some people look at a child and feel their chest widen. Others look at their own sleep schedule, their own untreated trauma, their own rage in traffic and think not yet, not like this. That is not nihilism. That is responsibility. The bravest thing some people will ever do is break the chain by not adding another link.

Marriage and children can be the most beautiful thing. They can also be the most efficient way to hide from yourself. It is easy to call it forever if you have never sat with your own loneliness without a witness. It is easy to say mini me if you have not yet met the parts of you that should not be replicated without serious editing. Many people want to arrive to that altar and that nursery with less unprocessed violence in their hands. That takes time. That looks from the outside like drifting.

If you are lucky enough to want it and still be soft when you picture it, hold that gently. Do not turn your hunger into a ruler you hit others with. The world has given plenty of reasons to be afraid of binding contracts and tiny hearts. Climate, war, courts, childhood bedrooms where love was conditional on performance. Not everyone has healed enough to gamble a child on their hope.

Ask people what they want under all the noise. Some will say a partner and kids. Some will say a room, a dog, three good friends and work that feels honest. Some will say I do not know yet, I was never given space to ask. The distance is not as far as it looks. Everyone is hunting the same thing under different packaging. A place where their nervous system can stop scanning the door. A hand that stays. A tomorrow that is not a threat.

You can stand in your dream of spouse and children without needing the whole planet to agree.

[☆ @bardioutside]

she looks like she wears bloody shoes and make money moves.

[🕷 @itsosillyyy]

We usually come for breakfast but we woke up late and the waitress said they were all in the kitchen assuming we drank too much last night 😂

[🕷 @itsosillyyy]

I love being a regular at restaurants they love us here

[🕷 @itsosillyyy]

My mother fr loves my wife 😂 I never imagined we'd get here

[Mauricio Lapchik @MauricioLapchik]

He is literally admitting that Israel is committing genocide.

[Bushra Shaikh @Bushra1Shaikh]

Some celebrities need to stay quiet about things they don't know anything about. She talks about bullshit 'duality' like it's a Harry Potter film. Israel has been killing, displacing, stealing, raping and ethnically cleansing Palestinians since it's inception. Just STFU.

[🕷 @itsosillyyy]

My assignment is due in 30 minutes. My wifi decides to go out. My laptop decides it needs to update RIGHT NOW! This is my 13th reason.

[cole @OMEGAZULA]

mind you there's people born after 2004 who live in complete ignorance to this song. they've lived their entire lives and made every decision on the foundation of not knowing this song exists. who don't know about the ruh roh raggy reba motherbob

[🕷 @itsosillyyy]

love love love living overseas but I'm gonna miss Cardi B's tour and idk I might just cry.

[🕷 @itsosillyyy]

@Jess_oreo The difference is you bought it and at least fill it up 😂

[DOM 🪄 @fairybrandmuva_]

I’m a woman of too many talents, I could never limit myself to doing one thing for the rest of my life. My world and creativity is just too expansive for that.

[🕷 @itsosillyyy]

I asked Jess to get my backup camera fixed so of course she did the only logical thing possible and bought me a new car.

[🕷 @itsosillyyy]

@Jess_oreo Thank you baby 😘😘