The notion that a man will treat the woman he “truly wants” right has done so much damage to young women’s discernment. It’s never been about this dream girl. It’s always been about men’s lack of character. You understand this, the less you internalize how they view/treat you.
shaming women for loving men (who wear masks to disguise their poor character) instead of shaming men for having poor character is also internalized misogyny, btw.
hope this helps!
@txadel_ I wasn’t into him as a child so I didn’t get into the details of the allegations until recently but the evidence is damning!! It’s spooky watching the fans defend him so vehemently😭 I just think he’s so nostalgic to ppl so they can’t bear to be honest