The minute you decide you want better for yourself is the minute the entire universe begins to shift in your favor. Your declaration, command, intentions, visions, and prayers begin the creation of the new reality. All you have to do is decide and never look back.
If I block/unfriend you, it's not beef. I simply don't need access to your business. I no longer desire to be a part of your life. People take it as being bothered, but I'm actually at peace, where your presence is not required.