As a man , why are you FAT?
You don’t menstruate. You don’t have hormonal issues. You don’t have PCOS. You don’t carry children.
So why are you fat? Why are your breasts hanging?
No matter how much you love your person, you need to be your own person.
Have your own hobbies, your own friends, your own time, your own fun.
Endeavor to be your own person.