The essence of anonymity is not in the mystery it conjures within the audience; but the freedom it guarantees the artist. To reflect without the shackles of familiarity. Because in his circle, there is always going to be someone who fits the shoe he painted. They will rage.
The person who smiles with you, could be the one angry with your growth.
His ‘friendliness’ disarms you from getting suspicious and enforcing your boundaries.
Once he encroaches into your boundaries, he fights your growth from within.
Never be permissible. Be selective.
Every man must simply learn to be alone. You will not die. Learn to bring yourself joy. Tame your sexual urges. Have more than just alcohol as a hobby. It makes you calmer, careful & intentional. Once you make peace with yourself, you'll never have to pay a dime for company.
Everyone has basic minimums. Mine is that I cannot date a woman who abuses alcohol/whiskey. You either quit, or never did. It has helped me a lot over the years. I like my woman sober.
If you are brave enough to visit her, and courageous enough to want to know the kind of person she is, peep into her dustbin. That's where her true lifestyle lies. What she eats, drinks and the drugs she takes are all there.
-the end-
A customer told me "if you raise your children,y you can spoil your grandkids ,but if you spoil your children, you'll have to raise your grandkids ." I think he found the secret to life because everything makes sense now .