For years, this man preached to other men: βDonβt marry. Donβt fall in love. Just have baby mamas and move on.β
Many young men listened to him. Some defended him. Some even built their mindset around everything he taught.
Then, quietly, he went and got married.
But what surprised me even more wasnβt that he got married. People are allowed to change their minds.
What truly left me speechless is that a woman agreed to marry a man whose public message has consistently been against womenn.
I honestly hope she finds happiness, because marriage is hard enough without walking into it with someone who has spent years convincing the world that women arenβt worth loving or committingg to.
This is also a reminder to everyone to be careful whose advice you build your life around. Some people sell one lifestyle to the public but choose something completely different for themselves.
What do you think? If someone spent years publicly speaking against marriage or against women, would you be comfortable marrying them?
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@rufaianas@cutelittlewolff Kato dakai kana biyema mace wai I donβt know weather I want to have children or notπ at least mace ita ko tsufa tayi xaβa sama masu kula fa ita amma kai kana kato ubanka xakaci babu heir babu mai maka adduβa
Forget the terrible writing, poor margins, wavy lines and horrible addressing. The first sentence of that last paragraph is enough to know this letter was written by JayB and his camp of illiterates.
βI also wanted to assured peopleβ¦β
Elrufai wrote that? Elrufai that was known to return memos from his commissioners for clerical errors? Biko naa.