Tumi Gold

The most important thing in life is not how happy you are but how happy others are because of you..

[Tumi Gold @itz_tumi01]

@baharkarakrt B= 1

[Tumi Gold @itz_tumi01]

@a__vanita @Angelaxoxo__ Try watching The Best Thing too. I was in awe of their frequent French kisses.

[C. N. Ebere @cn_ebere]

We just chose to keep quiet about the increasing number of grey hairs we started having after leaving Naija for the UK and other European countries. So, nobody has solutions to this?

Don't mention Vitamin D, that stuff is just helping the bones. What about ladies who are losing their front hair more than ever before?

Doctors and nutritionists in the house, please come ooo.

I can't lose my swag

[Moonlight 🌙 ✨ @Moonlight_myths]

"Mama... you knew?"
That was all I could say.
They kept talking and talking, explaining, justifying... like they were doing something reasonable. Then Uncle Samuel finally asked me:
"Do you have anything to say?"
They expected tears. They expected begging. They expected shock.
But what I said next shook the entire room more than they ever imagined... 😭💔💔😭

[Tumi Gold @itz_tumi01]

@annhybri Because when you marry, two becomes one, and as Job was under God’s protection, his wife indirectly became under it too

[👑S.A.L.A.K.O🕊 @UnkleAyo]

You think I'm happy living abroad?

I have a family I grew up with, whom I love with all of my heart - and the reality keeps dawning on me, on how many times I will see them before I one day turn 60.

People I saw daily, or once a month - I haven't seen in years, and would realistically only see once a year, going forward.

You think I'm happy?

That one day, I might end up having children and my siblings might not have the relationship with them - the relationship I had with my uncles, in my formative years? I remember clearly how they would take us to MrBiggs every Sunday - I am currently reliving the flavour from that meatpie.

How we would go to the family house in Ikeja, every year for Eid. The grandchildren uniforms, the snacks while watching your uncles slaughter rams.

You think I'm happy that I might one day lead a family of children who might not know their version of that?

WTF will I be doing in another man's land, if I did everything they asked me to do from childhood (face your studies, be exceptional, stay away from crime, be hardworking) and opportunities lined up for me to be the best I could, in my motherland? WTF will I be doing here?

Why will I condescend myself to living in a clime where I have to mentally switch from sun burning weather to teeth clenching winter - when I came from a land where I never needed gloves? You think I'm happy?

If I could do honest work, be on my way home and not have to bother about the risk of getting shot by the people meant to protect me, because I have some lines of tattoos on my body - you think I would leave?

If I could trust a justice system to defend me, ensure my rights even though I am a nobody - have trustworthy institutions banking on the highest standards, not have to worry about the bread I eat, the fake drinks from the club or streets, the fake drugs - you think I would leave?

Don't get me wrong. I am grateful for the opportunities this clime has given me, to test my limits - to be everything I thought I could be. But all of these, in replacement for the soul I grew up with?

You know the satisfaction that settled within me when I could wake up on a Saturday morning, stroll to the Iya wanke's place - relish an entire plate, or some ewa agonyin while watching children battle it out, in a 5 v 5 across the streets.

That communal living that relished my soul, is now replaced with silent streets and finely divided sealed terraces.

You walk through the city centres in the evenings - you see friends having an aperitif (they do so every evening), you see grandfathers meeting up with their children, you see entire families with extended families living across the streets, first cousins are even able to use the same gym and you remember what that looked like for you back home?

You think of all your friends scattered across continents, some you might never get to hug again.

For a lot of diasporans, you don't want Nigeria to work more than us. A lot of us want to come home, but what is home? Where is home? When will home feel like home?

I hope to continue living life without lack, in comfort, with accomplished dreams - but I want to do so, with soul. When I die one day, I want to do so - with soul.

[Carter Wilkerson @carterjwm]

HELP ME PLEASE. A MAN NEEDS HIS NUGGS

[MJ👑 @iam__Jezreel]

Haven't you noticed something strange these days? Your soul is telling you to repent and return to God, as if it knows the end is near.

Dont ignore it!!

JESUS IS COMING SOON!✝️

[Tumi Gold @itz_tumi01]

@Oluchiisxn @Jayysein Their child was switched at birth

[Tumi Gold @itz_tumi01]

Denouncing your culture and proclaiming a culture you have spent most of your years denigrating and insulting is really wild to me.

What’s sad is Yoruba women don’t even insult other culture women unprovoked. We just mind our business and love our parties.

[Benkingsley Nwashara @Benking443]

If Prayer has ever worked for you, please retweet.

[Yomi Capt. Awesome @mmayomi01]

Just RT if this makes you happy.

[Tumi Gold @itz_tumi01]

How I love being Yorùbá ❤️

[Tumi Gold @itz_tumi01]

@JOBCORNER247 MARCH

[Bachelor of Idan @BachelorIdan]

Lagos is bearing the burden of the collective failures of your present and past governors, that you refused to hold accountable

[Tumi Gold @itz_tumi01]

@honestfc1 Money

[Tumi Gold @itz_tumi01]

@Dacosta150 @_DebbieOA Done

[Tumi Gold @itz_tumi01]

@okikiayo11 Definitely. Thanks 😊