Small talk kills me. Teach me something. Tell me about your life experiences and the lessons you've learned. Discuss psychology and your spiritual journey. Give me depth and authenticity.
You want commitment, but how committed are you to yourself? To the things you love, that bring you joy? To taking care of you? To keeping you clean and groomed? Do you love, respect and honour you? Do you love you unconditionally?
Emotional maturity and active self awareness is really attractive. I appreciate having that energy around me. No grandiose displays. Just being present in your authentic self. I don't take that for granted. It goes a long way.