You need to understand that many things in life are not simply right or wrong.
Instead of arguing endlessly, forcing others to accept your views, or clinging to the belief that you must be right, what matters more is finding people who truly share your values.
But this does not mean forming a group just to keep arguing about who is right and who is wrong, or surrounding yourself with people who make you even angrier. It means finding an environment that suits you—one that gives you a sense of peace and allows you to look at life more calmly.
If you value freedom, then go somewhere that allows you to feel free. If you prefer tradition, that kind of life can be meaningful too.
You are allowed to change. What matters is that you do not let your environment shape you against your will. Know what you want, choose the environment that fits you, and make that choice consciously.
And if you have experienced a certain way of life and realized that it is not what you want, then turn in another direction. There is nothing wrong with changing your mind.
You should take an active role in shaping your own life.
Because when a person constantly fights with others, judges them harshly, or tries to control and pressure them, that violence toward the outside world often begins with the violence they have already been directing toward themselves.
So please, be a little kinder to yourself.