I don't ship Destiel because I love Castiel too much and he is too good for Dean while Dean and Sam deserve each other completely. We are NOT the same.
We're not discrediting her based on what she believes, people and multiple psychologists have discredited her because she couldn't provide a single source, generalized and demonized people based on biases, couldn't even read her own screenshots and acted absolutely unprofessional
Dean not wanting to go out in Valentine's day after calling codependent a couple that fucked while eating each other to death when we know how much Sam and Dean get called codependent makes me feral I don't know what to tell you.
100%. Porn use can be problematic, but it is not the core driver of the issue; the core driver of the issue is how the person thinks and feels about their porn use and whether it conflicts with their beliefs.