- Flowers must be a regular thing
- We must talk everyday
- Check in when you’re out (“just arrived”, “on my way home” etc)
- No exes that are friends
- Don’t move like a single man *online & outside*
- Plan dates *I hate a “we’ll see”*
how your partner was loved as a child will show up in: how they react when hurt, how they communicate during conflict, and how they respond when you share your feelings.
I miss when men just organically took care of women. I’m not talking about financially but in general. You see a woman putting air in her tire & immediately take over. Heavy groceries? You carrying them. With no expectation of anything in return. No motives, just men.
Men don't understand... being a "provider" isn't all about money. It's about providing the EMOTIONAL SECURITY that allows a woman to rest in her FEMININE ENERGY. Money is the icing, not the cake
Please date a man who believes in romance & provider mindset. Like holding doors open for you, buying you flowers, writing you love letters, courting you, treating you gently, planning surprises for you and honouring your heart in whatever ways he can & you deserve all of that >
okay, i lied. i like flowers i don’t have to ask for, dates i don’t have to plan, and being cared for like a baby. i like photos of us on your social media, reposts about me. i like acts of service, physical touch, quality time, and little surprises. i like being loved loudly.