Be obsessed. Don't be consistent, be devoted. Do not care about what people think. Opinions are opinions. Not facts. You do you. However weird. Be so wildly passionate that people can't decide if you are crazy or a genius.
I work on myself because I understand that I am responsible for where I end up. Not for everything that happened to me, but for every response, every habit, and every decision I made after it. That distinction is everything. Blame is easy. Ownership is what actually changes your life.