people lack accountability, then be like "you could've just talked to me". no, i couldn't. you don't listen. you deflect. you gaslight. you make me feel like i'm the problem for bringing it up. so no, i stayed silent to protect my peace, not because I didn't want to fix.
I always thought if I communicated enough, there would be change. But that's not the case. You can communicate until you run out of breath but if there's no comprehension, your words are useless
Breakups hurt. You know what really hurts? Trying to make it work with someone who has proven, time and time again, that they do not care about your feelings. That hurts.