Ìyá Ifáyẹmí

Creator
Oracle
Lover

[Ìyá Ifáyẹmí @iyaifayemi]

That we’ve outgrown something doesn’t make it invalid for others to desire.

[Ìyá Ifáyẹmí @iyaifayemi]

Own your body. Not just the parts of your body you like. Let the body be a vessel not just a mask. We take care of our vessel. We decorate our mask. A body that is just a mask is never ours to own but others’ to consume.

[Ìyá Ifáyẹmí @iyaifayemi]

That something isn’t ideal

doesn’t mean it isn’t worth doing.

That it is worth doing

doesn’t mean it will always be that way.

[Ìyá Ifáyẹmí @iyaifayemi]

It’s time to stop trying to prove yourself worthy of things that you’ve already outgrown.

[Ìyá Ifáyẹmí @iyaifayemi]

So much more of my spiritual experience has been about being a great caretaker of myself than I was expecting it to.

[Ìyá Ifáyẹmí @iyaifayemi]

You could have given up but you didn’t and now your ancestors are deeply grateful and want to make it up to you.

[Ìyá Ifáyẹmí @iyaifayemi]

The cost of self-respect is showing up for yourself.

[Ìyá Ifáyẹmí @iyaifayemi]

You will go much further thanking yourself for what you do than berating yourself for what you do not do.

[Ìyá Ifáyẹmí @iyaifayemi]

Things that also clear up your skin:
- releasing shame around sex and sexuality.
- realigning with what matters to you.
- reclaiming your magic.

[Ìyá Ifáyẹmí @iyaifayemi]

How do people who pick up flying insects like butterflies do it?

[Ìyá Ifáyẹmí @iyaifayemi]

Na you dey feed me?

Such a powerful statement.

[Ìyá Ifáyẹmí @iyaifayemi]

So much of skincare today is maintaining a reality that is not yours. You immediately stop something you’re using and your skin resets and that “back to normal” place is something a lot of us see as the problem.

[Ìyá Ifáyẹmí @iyaifayemi]

Conscious Giving is a resource I created to help you become someone who does not need their giving to become worthy of simply being.
https://t.co/XG2SE0mCU6

[Ìyá Ifáyẹmí @iyaifayemi]

One of the most dangerous narratives a Giver can internalize is that giving is better than receiving. Giving is more honorable than receiving. Receiving is more powerful than giving. Neither is better or worse than the other.

[Ìyá Ifáyẹmí @iyaifayemi]

Your giving is not a problem but the point of view that regards giving above its polar energy: receiving. Giving is a practice that must take into consideration the givers capacity and the receiver’s eligibility.

[Ìyá Ifáyẹmí @iyaifayemi]

The problem is that we see one as better and this blocks the giver from receiving from life because they use their giving as an escape from their own pain/suffering, an excuse from giving to themselves, or an exposure of themselves to others instead of making actual connections.

[Ìyá Ifáyẹmí @iyaifayemi]

@fueki_lee As someone who went to a school with a fair number of rich kids, this is correct. You don’t have an in. You simply stay a side kick.

[Ìyá Ifáyẹmí @iyaifayemi]

Giving is a responsibility. It creates leaks in your energy when you do not do it consciously. If you want to learn the art of giving consciously, I cover the how in my EBook Conscious Giving.

https://t.co/XG2SE0mCU6

[Ìyá Ifáyẹmí @iyaifayemi]

One of the things we’re taught about giving is that it’s meant to be a good thing. It is a positive thing to do. But something positive can have negative intentions and therefore negative consequences and vice versa.
Giving can be “bad” if done unconsciously.

[Ìyá Ifáyẹmí @iyaifayemi]

You can give something to that destroys them. You can give someone something at a time that collapses their structure. You can share something at the right time and the right way but the person is not good for you.