Avoidants be like:
I'm going to pursue you relentlessly, build a connection, and convince you we're headed somewhere real. Then the second i'm expected to take accountability for my actions, communicate like an adult, or face conflict, i'm going to disappear because avoiding my problems is easier than confronting them. After that, I'll just tell everyone we 'grew apart' or that 'things just didn't work out' because i'm a fucking coward.