Please date sweet men. Please date men who respect you in anger. Please date men who are soft spoken. Please date men who are patient with you. Please date men who respect their own bodies. Please date men that are kind to your soul. Please date men who have self-control
Guys I want to create group chat or community dedicated to focusing on our IDENTITIES! Nothing out here, no sp, no anything- just our self concept! Anyone interested????
Assume it’s already yours. walk like you own the timeline. your desires chose you for a reason. visualize it. affirm it. embody it. reality bends for your beliefs. you’re the operant power. main character energy only. MANIFEST I!
Ok so I keep seeing this comment: how do you handle hot and cold behavior?
You don’t. The fact that you think you need to handle it— that is the issue. The fact that you think you need to play a game and figure out how to get someone to treat you right— that is the issue. The fact that someone has so much emotional control over you that you have to take your precious time and invest it into figuring out how to serve them before you’re able to show up for yourself— that is the issue.
There’s nothing to figure out. There’s nothing to handle.
Stop fucking with it. Become someone that holds an identity that only allows them to focus on and create respectful dynamics. Which means when someone is being disrespectful you’re going to choose to honor yourself, accept the objective reality, stop giving a fuck and move forward.
Let people rise up to you. Why are you asking to stoop down to them? Stop.
Anytime you ask “how should I respond? What should I do?”
You’re encountering something where you feel disrespected but you’re too afraid to acknowledge it so you’re attempting to adjust yourself in a way that can be better received by someone that isn’t even worth that consideration because you have to be inauthentic in order to communicate with them.
Just so you know.
What should you do? Stop caring and call it how it is / move forward and let them rise up to you.
Stop shrinking. That’s what you should do.
@adria411583 Circumstances, then this wouldn’t even phase you. It’s who you’re identifying as, and right now you’re identifying as someone who is not ____. Hope this helps 💘
@adria411583 Everything ties back to SC. Sp ending things—> I’m not chosen/ I am abandoned/ rejected (depending on your perspective)
It has nothing to do with him, but it has everything to do with how you see yourself. If you knew you were chosen without a doubt in the face of undesired
@98VlPER ok this is probably out of left field but I am IN LOVE with your science posts, can u make a post on how in science speak when you completely drop your attention from an sp and focus on yourself they come in
If your SP isn’t showing up the way you want, remember they’re reflecting your assumptions. This means you need to CHANGE your assumptions about them. Think of it like going to the store with a wide selection of cookies—you wouldn’t pick the one you like the least, right? 1/2