I saw a post today that said “WHEN YOU FINALLY LEARN YOUR PLACE IN PEOPLES LIVES, YOUR FEELINGS WON’T GET HURT”.... I swear to God that’s the really truth and one of the most important life lessons you’ll learn. Whether it’s friends, family or whoever.
accepting that people’s experience with me is based on their perception, & i am not responsible for upholding the version of me/our experience that was in their head, nor do i have to view myself in the eyes of someone’s perception (before/after).
When you know you’re rare, you move different. You love different. And you don’t waste your rarity tryna convince anyone of it, you just keep on being rare until someone realizes it & wont treat you like anything less than what you are, which is rare.
As I grow, I am starting to understand the importance of not letting my feelings for someone lead me more than the reality that's right in front of me, how you feel about someone won't change who they really are.
Emotions won't change reality. 🙏🏽
it's raw af seeing yourself become a new
person.. focused on your own goals, not repeating the same cycles, out growing stagnant situations, not putting up with nobody shit 🫶🏽 it feels good