fun fact: if you’re only valued when you’re radiant, sensual and sweet but not when you’re sad, frustrated or needing emotional depth then you’re being objectified and this goes to friendship too.
Jhené Aiko made an album for the girls who trusted someone they shouldn’t have and has to move on with life with grace, knowing that they’re building discernment for the next person who they’ll give their love to. and sometimes that journey is not pretty, but it’s necessary.
always remember that.. Actions will ALWAYS speak louder than words.. So, next time someone tries to convince you that they care, look at what they do, not what they say.
Imagine fumbling someone who genuinely wanted nothing but the best for you, asking for nothing in return except your time, honesty, and a little reassurance. Wild how people sometimes lose something so genuine while searching for something “better.” 😭