I firmly believe that any bond whether friendship or relationships requires emotional responsibility. You can't hide behind an "I'm just like that" because if you're aware that you're making another person feel bad and you don't change, the problem is YOU.
Iโve always wondered if its just my city alone. Why do girls throw a lingerie themed party & invite the kinda guys that donโt follow said theme? Both ya asscheeks is out & thereโs a nigga to the left of you FULLY dressed, bubble coat & hatโฆ that donโt seem strange to you?!!!
There was a time where, immediately i say I liked someone, my first instinct was to make their life easier, iโd do things without being asked, not worrying if I was getting any back
Realized I kept meeting same type of people, people who only thought of themselves, who always had something more important than me
Now Iโm different, these people are finding it difficult getting access to me and itโs such an elevating experience
This world so scary niggas think weโre out to get them for money that they donโt have ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
this is why having high self esteem is important: iโll never let my bad dating experiences make me think that there arenโt men out there who will love me and treat me the way I deserve.
When someone lends you money,
remember it's from their savings, emergency funds, and hard-earned income. Big or small, if they trust you enough to lend it, repay it without being asked. It speaks volume about who you are.