and when you don't have parents or family to fall back on, you definitely grind wayyy HARDER.. The stakes are raised when your livelihood is on you alone with no safety net.
Sometimes as a woman , we have to sit and reflect on how we didn't stand firm on our boundaries which allowed others to treat us poorly. It's a hard reality but holding yourself accountable for accepting things you should've never accepted is a part of healing & growth.
Went to the bar by myself last night . Will def be doing it again . S/O to the bartender , sis got me drunk for free and then some guy gave me a free shot . My lightweight ass was drunk lol
Almost talked myself out of booking a hotel staycation while my kids dad is in town . I'm already enjoying my peace Day 1 . Will def be doing this more . Matter a fact next time it'll be a solo trip somewhere for the weekend !
I AM SO FUCKING TIRED OF LIVING IN A WORLD WHERE THE PEOPLE MAKING THE BIGGEST DECISIONS ABOUT OUR LIVES ARE THE ONES WHO WILL NEVER HAVE TO LIVE WITH THE CONSEQUENCES OF THEIR FUCKED UP ASS DECISIONS
Trying to find my way back to the gym as a single mom to 2 is the hardest shit ever . Debating if the membership is even worth it or if I should just build a home gym . I like actually going to the gym tho for the sauna and weight machines but been wasting this membership lately