i never notice this bc i’m always working the gigs, but one of my favorite things about buffalo is that every single weekend, whatever bar you walk into, 90% chance there will be live music
the hardest thing about adulthood for me is transitioning from being the “drop everything to go to a show” girly to the “fuck, i can’t miss work” girly
confession: i always liked watching boyfriends play video games. the stories are fun but i’m not good at using the controller!!! and it can actually be very feminist to sit back and say “go in that room i bet something is in there”
this is just a random slightly sad but wholesome thought: when my mom was sick at home, her boss was still paying her weekly and making sure she had an income. i think about that sometimes and i just really appreciate him for that. the world needs more bosses like him